Correu melhor do que eu poderia imaginar. Acho que até eu me portei melhor e me surpreendi a mim mesma. Não houve lágrimas, nem minhas nem dela, embora a véspera fizesse adivinhar alguma agitação.Já deitada chamou-me e disse-me que não queria ir para a escola dos crescidos, eu expliquei-lhe que ela já era muito crescida para a outra escola e que agora esta seria a nova escola. Ainda assim não sossegou e ao ver que a agitação dela na cama não diminuia, deitei-me com ela e conversámos sobre a mudança e o medo de ir para a escola nova. Parece ter resultado porque sossegou e dormiu uma noite descansada. 
Já de manhã os medos voltaram e pediu-me para ir para casa da avó, depois para ir para a escola antiga, e por fim para não ir para a nova. Voltei a falar-lhe dos medos e disse-lhe que era normal, que eu tembém tinha tido medo quando era pequenina como ela mas que depois passa logo quando se começa a brincar com os meninos novos. Disse-lhe que ia ter uma nova professora que ia gostar tanto dela como a outra e aos poucos ela foi cedendo até ser ela própria a dizer-me que não era preciso ter medo. Saímos de casa confiantes e acredito que o nó que senti na barriga era muito semelhante ao que ela sentia.
Já de manhã os medos voltaram e pediu-me para ir para casa da avó, depois para ir para a escola antiga, e por fim para não ir para a nova. Voltei a falar-lhe dos medos e disse-lhe que era normal, que eu tembém tinha tido medo quando era pequenina como ela mas que depois passa logo quando se começa a brincar com os meninos novos. Disse-lhe que ia ter uma nova professora que ia gostar tanto dela como a outra e aos poucos ela foi cedendo até ser ela própria a dizer-me que não era preciso ter medo. Saímos de casa confiantes e acredito que o nó que senti na barriga era muito semelhante ao que ela sentia.De mochila às costas e sorriso na cara encheu-se de boa disposição e seguimos para a escola nova. Lá mostrou-se fascinada com a agitação e acedeu logo a ir com a auxiliar para a sala dos meninos novos. Foi sem nunca olhar para trás e sem choros, confiante de que ia gostar. De regresso a auxiliar diz que ela ficou lindamente, que a largou da mão logo que viu os meninos e que foi logo brincar com eles.
Comeu as refeições todas mas dormiu muito pouco, o que é normal com toda a agitação do dia. 
De regresso a casa foi tempo de experimentar o bibe novo e o equipamento da ginástica. Ela adorou a brincadeira, embora o bibe lhe esteja enorme e tenha de ser trocado por outro mais à medida.
De regresso a casa foi tempo de experimentar o bibe novo e o equipamento da ginástica. Ela adorou a brincadeira, embora o bibe lhe esteja enorme e tenha de ser trocado por outro mais à medida.Eu fiquei mais descansada porque o primeiro dia correu bem, e quando a fui buscar trouxe-a tão ou mais feliz do que a deixei. E isso vale tudo.
Hoje já não houve hesitação nenhuma e foi com grande prazer e vontade que saiu de casa com ar importante e mochila às costas para ir para a escola.
Acho que posso finalmente respirar fundo e descomprimir...
The first day on the new school went even better than I could imagine. I think even I behaved myself better than i thougth i would and end up surprising myself. There were no tears, not mine nor hers, altougth the night before had some agitation.
Already lying on her bed she called me and told me she did not want to go to the new school, I explained her that she was already too grown up for the other school and now she would have to go to the new school. She didn't settled down and she kept looking to excited for bedtime, so I lay down with her and talked about the change and the fear of going to the new school. It had some result as she seems to have settled down and slept a restful night. Already in the morning fears returned and she asked me to go to grandma's house, then to go to the old school, and finally not to go into the new. I went back to talk to her about her fears and told her it was normal, I also had been afraid when I was little but then it all go away as you start playing with young boys. I told her that she would have a new teacher who would like her so much as the other and slowly she start telling me that there was no need to fear.
With her backpack on and a big smile on her face she was filled with good mood and we went to the new school. There she proved to be fascinated with the all excitement of the other kids and soon agreed to go with the auxiliary to her classroom. She never looked back and there was no crying, she was confident that she would like it. When the auxiliary returned she sayed she went beautifully and that she dropped off her hand when he saw the kids and went playing with them.
She ate her meals well but slept very little, which is normal with all the excitement of the day. Back home it was time to try the new pinafore and gym equipment. She loved the play, although her pinafore is enormous and must be replaced by something near her size.
I'm more relaxed because the first day went well, and when I brought her home she was as happier, or even more, than when I left her at school.
Today, there was no hesitation and it was with great pleasure that left home with her confident look and her backpack go to school.
I think I can finally take a deep breath and unwind ...
Already lying on her bed she called me and told me she did not want to go to the new school, I explained her that she was already too grown up for the other school and now she would have to go to the new school. She didn't settled down and she kept looking to excited for bedtime, so I lay down with her and talked about the change and the fear of going to the new school. It had some result as she seems to have settled down and slept a restful night. Already in the morning fears returned and she asked me to go to grandma's house, then to go to the old school, and finally not to go into the new. I went back to talk to her about her fears and told her it was normal, I also had been afraid when I was little but then it all go away as you start playing with young boys. I told her that she would have a new teacher who would like her so much as the other and slowly she start telling me that there was no need to fear.
With her backpack on and a big smile on her face she was filled with good mood and we went to the new school. There she proved to be fascinated with the all excitement of the other kids and soon agreed to go with the auxiliary to her classroom. She never looked back and there was no crying, she was confident that she would like it. When the auxiliary returned she sayed she went beautifully and that she dropped off her hand when he saw the kids and went playing with them.
She ate her meals well but slept very little, which is normal with all the excitement of the day. Back home it was time to try the new pinafore and gym equipment. She loved the play, although her pinafore is enormous and must be replaced by something near her size.
I'm more relaxed because the first day went well, and when I brought her home she was as happier, or even more, than when I left her at school.
Today, there was no hesitation and it was with great pleasure that left home with her confident look and her backpack go to school.
I think I can finally take a deep breath and unwind ...
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