O ano passado foi assim... Um grande projecto que de tão grande continua sem fim à vista e um outro enxoval de bebé!Com a alma já nas férias e o corpo a caminho vou organizando as coisas que quero fazer com estes dias, que inevitavelmente, serão curtos, muito curtos...
Tenho tantas coisas que gostava de fazer, e agora com mais este bebé a caminho gostava de ter horas e horas para fazer tudo o que quero e aproveitar ao máximo estes dias a preparar mais uma chegada de algo que de tão pequenino vai mudar tanto as nossas vidas.
Mas o tempo é um recurso limitado e por isso há que fazer escolhas, e talvez o critério seja mesmo o que é mais prioritário e o que está em stand by à mais tempo...
E eu que aqui me tinha comprometido a não começar mais do 3 novos projectos este ano, acabei por comprometer tudo e ter uma fúria repentina de começar projectos novos. E com isto descobri a minha forma de gerir o stress e a ansiedade, é que só agora (é preciso chegar aos 30 para concluir estas coisas!) é que me apercebi que sempre que algo me preocupa, ou me enerva ou me deixa ansiosa e me fica a remoer cá dentro, a resposta do meu corpo é regorgitar todo esse stress sob a forma de um novo projecto parido do caldeirão das ideias. Tá bom de se ver que com esta história do descolamento da saco amniótico e com as semanas intermináveis sempre à espera de ver acontecer o pior, acabei por começar alguns projectos que não tinha previsto e bem... tenho outros prontos a saltar do caldeirão e tenho lutado muito, mas muito, para os manter quietinhos até... até ter mais tempo e estes projectos acabados. Mas é tão, tão dificil...
Por isso tive de me centrar nas prioridades e acabei por decidir que o importante é descançar e dormir muito, porque se este bebé for como a mana, nos próximos dois anos não há soninhos bons para a mamã.
Depois é prioritário aproveitar estas férias ao máximo, serão as ultimas férias como mãe de um só filho. Para o ano, se Deus nos abençoar, seremos quatro. E será tudo diferente.
Depois é também prioritário aproveitar o tempo depois da Mafalda adormecer, porque em breve voltamos a ser três no quarto, com sonos e horas trocadas e com outras prioridades legitimas mas que deixam muito pouco tempo para o nós.
E posto isto o grande desafio é gerir o tempo que fica nos intervalos de tudo isto para conseguir produzir trabalho, e conseguir fazer as coisas que quero com tão pouco tempo tempo disponível.
Quero partilhar convosco os projectos que tenho em curso, mas vou por isso também na lista dos afazer das férias.
Para já digo que na mala vai um livro e 3 projectos em curso e tenho dúvidas quanto ao quarto...
Last year was like this ... A major project that's so bit that still has no end in sight and many others baby gifts for baby!
With my soul already on vacation and with my body on it's way, I'm organizing things to take with me these days.
I have so many things I wich to do, and now with this baby on the way i would like to have hours and hours to do everything I want and live these days preaparing the arrival of this baby that will change our lives.
But time is a scarce resource and therefore we must make choices, and perhaps even the criterion is what is most priority and what is in stand by for more time ...
And here I committed myself to not start more than three new projects this year. I ended up compromising everything has i had a sudden fury of starting new projects. And with this I found my way of managing stress and anxiety, which is only now (i had to hit 30 to get there!) that I realized that whenever something bothers me or annoys me or makes me anxious and I is dwelling inside, the response of my body is to spit all this stress in the form of a new project calved from the cauldron of ideas. And with the detachment of the amniotic sac and the interminable weeks just waiting for the worst to happen, I ended up starting some projects which i had not anticipated and well ... I have others ready to jump from the pot and I have struggled a lot to keep them quiet inside until... Well, untill i have more time and old projects finished. But it's so, so hard ...
So I had to focus on priorities and I eventually decide that the important thing is to rest and sleep a lot, because if this baby is like big sister, there will be no good naps for mom in the next two years.
Then i want to take the full joy of this vacation, it will be the last vacation as the mother of one child. Next year, we will be four. And everything will be different.
It's also a priority to spend some time as a couple, and enjoy when Mafalda is sleeping, because soon we will be three in the bedroom with sleep hours exchanged and with other legitimate priorities but will have little time for ourselves.
And so the big challenge is to manage the time in between all this to be able to produce work and get things done with so little time available.
I want to share with you the projects I have underway, but i've hadded it to my to-do list on my vacation.
I'll just say i have a book in my bag and three ongoing projects and have some doubts about the fourth...
Last year was like this ... A major project that's so bit that still has no end in sight and many others baby gifts for baby!
With my soul already on vacation and with my body on it's way, I'm organizing things to take with me these days.
I have so many things I wich to do, and now with this baby on the way i would like to have hours and hours to do everything I want and live these days preaparing the arrival of this baby that will change our lives.
But time is a scarce resource and therefore we must make choices, and perhaps even the criterion is what is most priority and what is in stand by for more time ...
And here I committed myself to not start more than three new projects this year. I ended up compromising everything has i had a sudden fury of starting new projects. And with this I found my way of managing stress and anxiety, which is only now (i had to hit 30 to get there!) that I realized that whenever something bothers me or annoys me or makes me anxious and I is dwelling inside, the response of my body is to spit all this stress in the form of a new project calved from the cauldron of ideas. And with the detachment of the amniotic sac and the interminable weeks just waiting for the worst to happen, I ended up starting some projects which i had not anticipated and well ... I have others ready to jump from the pot and I have struggled a lot to keep them quiet inside until... Well, untill i have more time and old projects finished. But it's so, so hard ...
So I had to focus on priorities and I eventually decide that the important thing is to rest and sleep a lot, because if this baby is like big sister, there will be no good naps for mom in the next two years.
Then i want to take the full joy of this vacation, it will be the last vacation as the mother of one child. Next year, we will be four. And everything will be different.
It's also a priority to spend some time as a couple, and enjoy when Mafalda is sleeping, because soon we will be three in the bedroom with sleep hours exchanged and with other legitimate priorities but will have little time for ourselves.
And so the big challenge is to manage the time in between all this to be able to produce work and get things done with so little time available.
I want to share with you the projects I have underway, but i've hadded it to my to-do list on my vacation.
I'll just say i have a book in my bag and three ongoing projects and have some doubts about the fourth...
1 comentário:
Olá Mariana!
Como é bom ver que existe mais alguem que pensa e age como eu, às vezes fico aborrecida comigo própria. Não quero começar projectos novos sem ter terminado os antigos, mas às vezes estou tao chateada a vida e a melhor forma de "desanuviar" é organizar um novo projecto.
Só costumo levar um trabalho para férias, já levei mais mas acabo por não fazer nada... estou de férias....
Desejo de umas boas férias e bons trabalhos
BEIJOCAS
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